No matter how much you try to do everything right in a relationship, there may be times when you stumble and break the trust of the person you love. Trust is the bedrock of a marriage. As it is said, ” trust is hard to gain, easy to break and difficult to get back”.Gaining your partner’s trust back is essential to build up your relationship strong. If you have screwed up your relationship and want to mend it from the core of your heart, this article will surely help you. The reason behind losing your partner’s trust could be different and if you have ruined your beloved partner’s trust, it will surely get difficult for them to trust you but don’t lose hope. Everyone deserves a second chance, so you, but don’t betray her again and try to mend up your mistake wholeheartedly.
Things which must be done to win her trust back:
• Accept your mistake
As soon as you realise your mistake that you have broken your partner’s trust, it’s time to take charge of your ill behaviour. If you are dishonest, you will have a fear of caught again, so don’t ever try to do that if you actually want to get your partner back. Accept it that you have made a mistake and feel bad about it.
• Say Sorry
Next step which comes after you have accepted your mistake and take responsibility of your action is to apologise saying a heartfelt sorry. If you are genuinely mean it, your partner can feel it through your eyes and gestures. Have a face to face communication and if you are not in a condition to have an eye contact, leave a handwritten note.
• Don’t be defensive
It is not the time to point out fingers and play the blame game. If natural that your partners is angry with you and may use harsh words, it’s time to listen to her as it is you who are guilty and knowing the fact you have broken the trust, let her rage come out of her heart. If you will become angry, things will only get sour.
• Be humble and have patience
Winning someone’s trust back is not an overnight thing. Your partner’s need time to swallow the ugly happening. Be humble, don’t think that as soon as you said sorry, everything is back on track. Be patient and try to do necessary improvement in your behaviour.
• Respect the space she demands
We know that you want to resolve the issue as early as possible but give your partner time to heal. If she needs some alone time and doesn’t want to talk to you as she is broken because this was not expected from you, give her some space respecting her decision.
• Be open to them
To win her trust back, you have to quit the privacy you want in your life. Be an open book. Give her smallest details about your activities and if she asks, give her answers by not being rude and giving excuse that there should be a personal space. It’s you who is at fault and its genuine for her to behave in that way.
• Ask for a second chance.
Never let this bridges the gap between both of you. Ask her for the second chance. Pay attention as it is a great time to win her heart and trust back. And guys! If she gives you second chance surely means she loves you like hell. Don’t ruin it. Appreciate her for being in your life.
• Be affectionate and listen
Action speaks louder and leaves an impact that even words can’t. Be affectionate to her. Hug her unexpectedly. Listen to her and remember the little things about her like pay attention if she needs the other cup of coffee.
Though it is difficult to gain your partner’s trust back but it is not impossible if you genuinely do efforts and seeks an apology. Follow the points stated in the article as, without trust, love can’t be enough to hold that person in your life.