New year is about to arrive in full swing within few days. Everyone would be busy deciding what they want to pursue or follow in the new year whether it’s about taking guitar class or cooking class, going for a walk in the morning or don’t return back home carrying office work to finish waking up late hours. All the kids, school going students, adults or oldies are busy making resolutions for the new year to follow throughout the year with the same zest and zeal like day one. But who says your new year resolutions should be all about you? For the couples, it is a high and fair chance to make resolutions together to spread more love in your marriage. Choosing a specific resolution as a couple helps in building a stronger and healthier bond between you both.
Do you think to live happily ever after happens only in marriages? Well if you think so, sorry to say but you are indeed wrong. The new year resolutions which we are going to state here will strengthen your marriage and make your married life much better filled with happiness and love that you will proudly say happily ever after is a true phase, which is actually possible in real life.
New year resolutions which you should take as a couple:
• Don’t hold harsh feeling for each other
Life takes many turns unpredictably, it lets you face many ups and downs, highs and lows to shape you a better human being than before individually an as a couple. In a relationship, you have to undergo tests to realise why it never worked out with someone else and why only that person is your life partner? But these obstacles and hurdles fill your heart with resentment and bitterment for your partner. This new year, take a pledge as a couple, no matter how many hurdles you face, this temporary phase not let the feeling of anger, annoyance penetrate deep in your heart drifting you apart.
• Schedule we time to connect with each other
It is easy to spare time for your partner if you are a newlywed or experiencing early years of marriage where life not takes a toll on you but as soon as you adjust in your marriage other things comes front giving you no time to spend qualitatively. You are always busy doing household chores, packing lunchbox, cooking dinner, doing laundry or looking after kids and in all these couple time takes a backseat. Make it a resolution from the start that too even on new year to schedule a we time for yourself to maintain intimacy in your marriage.
• Financial stability
Although it’s true that money can’t buy everything required to make a relationship successful and healthy but we can’t neglect the importance of money making in marriage as who want to make his/her partner getting low seeing that you can’t afford the thing you need. Financial stability is a must and it is not the duty of only one, its a joint effort. A couple who promised to do everything together must work together to release stress and tension over financial issues. Pledge together.
• Keep the mobile and gadgets aside before sleeping
Technology has become an indispensable part of our lives. All can be seen glueing their eyes on the mobile screens, televisions, laptops, ipads or video games and etc. It has become a medium of interaction and survival of our relationship but it will be wrong if it creates conflicts in your love life. These gadgets that are making our lives easier are bridging an emotional gap between the partners. This new year, make it a resolution that you will keep your phone aside and turn off your gadgets at least one hour before dozing off to sleep as it will give you time to connect with your partner.
• Makeout love, be physically involves
Marriage is a beautiful thing that gives you a partner who is going to be there emotionally, mentally and physically. Making love is an essential component for a happy and healthy marriage. With your needs, counter the needs of your partner in mind. Don’t let making love put on back burner. Sex is also important like emotionally available for your spouse. Make it a commitment this new year as a couple that you will keep the physical intimacy alive in your relationship to make it stronger and peaceful.
Plan together, dream together and resolute together this new year for keep burning the fuel of love in your marital bliss.