We, human beings, are all created by God in his likeliness and image. We are made to live on a planet name Earth for only one purpose i.e. to feel. As humans, we are persuaded to feel different emotions and live our life to the fullest.
Though we’re created by God still, we have our unique and wonderful differences, beliefs, perceptions, thinking etc..some people have a logical reason behind doing anything…whereas some people give preference to feelings before acting upon something. Let’s take an example, for instance, love. We have different aspects, different views and a different way of understanding for this abstract four-letter word. So what is love?
For some, it is a magical feeling one experiences on seeing someone he/she adores in a way that he feels butterflies in his stomach. While for some, it’s an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. A strong feeling, a decision, or a lifetime promise to be with someone. Love is a kind of feeling “when someone else’s happiness is your happiness.” Love is something when you won’t mind for moving away from that person if she is happy without you. Love is not finding someone to live with…It’s finding someone you can’t live without.
Love is when that person is near you, you get nauseous and tend to splutter on your words. They say its hormonal imbalance, which is true. But it’s hard to identify that what leads you to feel this emotion called as “Love”.
Love is not ‘If’, ‘because’, ‘why’, ‘when’. Love is ‘anyway’, ‘even though’ and ‘in spite of’. Love is when one person knows all your secrets… your deepest, darkest, most horrible secrets of which no one else in the world knows… and yet in the end that one special person in your life doesn’t think any less of you, even if the rest of world does.Love is so powerful that it can bring even the gods to their knees.
There are different forms of love: love for your parents, for family, for friends and most especially to God. But there is one form of love that I will tackle in this article which I have experienced in my past days i.e. love after marriage.
Love after marriage
They say “marriage is a thousand little things. It’s giving up your right to be right in the heat of an argument.” It’s forgiving another when they let you down. It’s loving someone enough to step down so they can shine. It’s friendship. It’s being a cheerleader and trusted confidant. Its sweet, romantic, and is filled with sparkling lights. When you are in love with someone, you seem to forget the whole world and that one person is the only thing worth keeping in love.
It is an amazing feeling when you know that you are loved and an even more delightful feeling when you are in love. Love is a billion different things for a billion different people. Love is when someone can make you laugh at random moments. Love is in marriage, not 50/50, it’s 100/100.Love is when you stay up for the whole night, just talking, talking about anything..which means everything to you. Love is when you can be your complete self around the other person without worrying they’d judge you because they already know and love you for who you are.
I have one last thing to say before concluding my article above for marvelous feeling, we call love. “Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you!” No one can exactly define this feeling as it’s something so divine…so pure..so blissful…!! Only God could design it. Love is beyond any definition. Love is immortal, it’s a God gift which can only be felt.