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Things Newly Wed Couples Should Remember In a Long Distance Relationship

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To be hitched with the same person for seven birth is a heavenly blessing. Wedding rituals and traditions in India offer two distinctive individuals to get along together in a mangal parinay or in an auspicious relation for the consecutive seven births. Wedding ceremony marks the beginning of two people in a sacred relationship of husband and wife for a lifetime. Newly wedded couples want to spend every single minute possible with their beloved. Sharing dinner on the same table, going for walks together, sleeping right next to the person you love, every moment is just magical when you are in a relationship.

But sometimes due to job preferences like if you are a soldier or a pilot, a couple has to live separately from one another. It’s undoubtedly difficult to stay away from your beloved partner but we all know “we get to the know the true value of a person if one is far away from us or beyond our reach.” So, if you both are in a long distance relationship and feels bad about it and don’t have the actual idea how to sort things out between the two rekindling the same love. Long distance relationships may seem tough but it has its own charisma. Here are few factors or ingredients which are essential to maintaining a long-distance relationship with purity, love, and affection building a strong inseparable bond.

Communicate

Communication is the key to any relationship to last long. Now you two are hitched together for eternity and feeling the pain of separation for a period of time, it is must, to start your day greeting good morning and end it with good night text even if the other person is not in a favourable condition to respond but he/she will surely feel happy seeing your texts. Moreover, plenty of digital platforms play the role of cupid to bring you closer. Opt for WhatsApp messaging, video calling, video chatting, live audio and short videos. Mail all the happenings going on in your day to day life. Don’t worry if these are the repeated things that you had your lunch after completion of task because the person who loves you always want to know if you have had your meal on time, slept on time or not.

Trust

Trust is the most important factor to forge a strong bond between the couple who are living together or are in a long distance relationship. Trust your partner from the core of your heart. It’s not only you but the other one would also miss you and it’s natural to feel insecure for your beloved partner. Fight together with the feelings of jealousy, insecurity, fear of something would go wrong. Be honest to share whatever you are feeling. Don’t water the seed of doubt deep inside your head. Be open to listening to his/her point of view. A Little bit of jealousy and insecurity is healthy But don’t ruin the love and spark out of it.

Give surprises

Every individual loves to get surprises. Surprise your partner more often whenever you get a chance. It is not necessary to plan something expensive, but sending a rose flower or favorite chocolates will do the same effect. Surprises are something which keeps the spark of love alive in a long distance relationship. Choose to show your emotions more than the value of the item as one wants to feel love. Simple gifts convey emotions at the best. Mail them a love letter, confess how lucky you are to find a true soulmate in them and wait for the magic. It will make them fly high and high in love.

Tip: Visit your spouse surprisingly. Nothing could match up to this surprise for sure.

Do things together

There is no boundation that you both will have to stay at one place to do things together. Do mutual efforts to stay in love with each other. Watch movies or a favorite show together. Make a video call, sing or share your dinner together as chatting apps have made our life simpler. Suggest each other to start reading the same book at the same time or play online games together with each other.  talk of the things you do together even though by staying apart. Create memories and create experience how distance is just a word for both of you.

Patience

Last but not the least element is to have patience when you are dealing with the stress and pain of being in a long-distance relationship. It would happen that your beloved won’t be able to respond you quickly after seeing your text. Instead of lashing out your frustration, do wait for them to revert back. You possibly won’t have any idea how their day would be going or if they fall sick or having a severe headache. Be patient. Give them time to get back to you and explain themselves.

Keep Romance Alive

Being in long distance relationship, at some point, one feels that another one is falling out of love but that is not the truth. Be emotionally connected with each other. Plan out a candle out dinner. Book a short weekend trip together even if you need to come across from miles for this. These sweet gestures show the worth of a person. Keep Igniting the lamp of love with the most desired fuel of romance.

Long distance relationships are tough to maintain but it’s not impossible to be in love with each other, taking care of each other emotions, managing enough time to spend together or be there in times of need and struggle. These key ingredients will help the newlywed lovebirds to form a deeper bond staying in a long distance relationship.